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Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator. Doug’s work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts to training life inmates to be peacemakers and mediators in maximum-security prisons
Top things you’ll learn from Doug Noll
- De-escalation is the ultimate skill & life hack
- Be careful when choosing goals
- Benefits of developing emotional understanding & skills
- Emotionally supported kids are two grades smarter than their peers
- Adults can prevent and diffuse any fights
- Increases compassion and ability to read room
- You won't be confused by the behavior of others
- Massive social awareness boost
- Provides the one thing your dates want more than anything
- Affect labeling induces a transcendent state
- Priceless, effortless, easy, free tool
- The top affect labeling mistake
- Meditation widens gap between trigger and reaction
- Breathwork works to calm people but takes too long
- The rationality lie, debunked by neuroscience
- Humans are 98% emotional, 2% logical
- The ONE idea that has caused the most harm to society
- What is emotional invalidation?
- Humans are not born with emotions
- Science of developing emotion from nine basic affects
- Danger of ignoring emotions
- How to master emotions and what you'll gain
- Connection to others is the fundamental human need
- Shocking findings from the ACES study
- The one link between all mass murderers
- What happens in the brain during emotional abuse or invalidation
- Repeated trauma stops development of emotional center of brain
- The ultimate gift to kids which could make prisons disappear
- Myth of “logical” data-driven personalities
- Einstein relied heavily on emotion
- Rules and codes of emotion
- Doug Noll's 3 step process to de-escalate in 90 seconds or less
- The neuroscience of emotional affect labeling
- Nick tried affect labeling and failed
- Affect labeling others makes you more self-aware
- Is it really possible to ignore the words someone says and still understand them?
- Affect labeling texts, emails, social media, and written communication
- What other conflict resolution systems get wrong
- Nine basic universal affects
- Humans are the only animal with emotions
- “Why can't I say yes” rather than saying no
- Humans transmute energy into different forms to survive
- Empathy vs sympathy vs compassion
- Affective vs cognitive empathy
- Practical example of affect labeling over email
- Biggest communication myths
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